Caring is Cool
"Why do you care?" Because I can and I want to.
There must’ve been some change I wasn’t notfied about because has caring suddenly been seen as cringe? The whole reason I started this blog is because I care wayyy too much about things and I have no one to tell them to. I’ve always thought that caring is one of the traits that I love the most about humans. Seeing someone talk to passionately about something they love makes me happy as well, even if the topic is something that I normally hate… physics.. But thats besides my point. My point is that people acting like the don’t have any interests make them cool. Please talk to me about something I don’t understand at all, seeing you happy makes it worth my time.
Speaking of not caring, did I miss the memo about nonchalant boys? Why are so many teenage boys pretending to be nonchalant? Because I know for a fact that most of these guys are not nonchalant. I know theres probably some social or psycological reason for this but ughhhhh. Its not even about dating or finding a boyfriend who's not nonchalant. But sometimes its so hard to even do group work with them because they’re too busy acting edgy to actually communicate (💢^ω^).
Why am I even ranting about this? I have no clue honestly. Since we’re already on the topic of caring, I would like to bring up another point. Why have people stopped caring about others feelings? I find it very strange that people are able to say something downright mean about someone and not feel at the very least a littleee upset at themselves? I’m not saying I’m this angel who can do no wrong and only speaks nice things about people, but at least I can back my words with valid reasons and even then I feel bad because I probably shouldn’t be saying these things in the first place.
Another tangent but its alright this is my blog I can do what I want. I hate how people put you down for your own emotions. I saw a quote once that said “Saying ‘its not that deep’ is crazy because those are my feelings not yours” and it really resonated with me. I think if people were maybe a bit more empathic to each other the world would be a bit of a nicer place. The more I grow up, the more I appriciate people doing kind little things to me, even if its just as small as someone saying thank you when I hold the door open for them. I find it extremely hard to believe that you can’t take 5 seconds to put yourself in someones shoes. You say “Why is everyone the same?” yet you expect everyone to react the same to a situation that, frankly, isn’t going to get the same reaction from everyone. Its like putting a fish and a cat in water and expecting them to react the same. I know that might be an extreme example but you get my point.
The other day I overheard a group of boys making fun of this guy for the way he talked. I find it kind of crazy that the person they made fun of will always be more well liked than they will ever be. It pisses me off that these people can do this, walk away, and feel no remorse whatsoever while the people being ridiculed will be the ones who have to deal with the more negative emotions.
That was more of a rant than a blog and if anything that will probably be the norm on this blog. I should probably start adding a TLDR at the end of my posts because A. Its funny B. All of my thoughts here can be summarised in less than 3 sentences. If you don’t like this style of writing leave before its too late ʚ( ˘꒳˘ )ɞ. But if you do, welcome to the blog! I hope you stick around (◌´ᗜ`◌)